Just throwing something out there that I haven't seen discussed lately. It may have been and I just missed it too, as I don't read every post anymore.
When first diagnosed, the book "Cure Unknown" by Pamela Weintraub was discussed here a lot. I got the book and read it, and it really helped to bring everything full circle, as far as what to believe and what to question. Just the fact that it was another source of the information that we discuss here helped me to accept what was being discussed here. When you are first diagnosed and all of this is thrown at you, you just want to run and hide because it's so insane to think this could really be happening -- you (finally) get diagnosed, mainstream doctors don't "believe in it" and the whole insurance doesn't cover it aspect, most other people simply don't get it and probably never will so support is low, if there at all, and all the various treatment options, most of which I had never even heard of before, make it such a twilight zone experience.