Hi Puregreen!
I have had Lyme arthritis since I was 18 or maybe earlier, finally diagnosed with Lyme and Bartonella one and a half year ago. I'm 34 now.
Are you getting any treatment for Lyme (and co?) now? Seeing a LLMD?
I can't help you with the extreme fatigue (no success with that for me until now, the fatigue is my longest existing symptom) I'm sorry for that, but if you are undergoing treatment, it should get better.
For the arthritis: my dr prescribed me these supplements:
Zyflamend (he says it works as well as Diclophenac)
High doses of Omega3
Berberine
Ginger and Turmeric are also good for pain and joints.
It took a while for me to get results from these supplements, but I surely felt a difference after 2 months. If you would be able to take them all the time, regularly, it should work much better and much much quicker. I have food intolerances and a very bad stomach, I can't take them all the time.
I'm sure others will join in with good advice!
Good luck!
MarieLS