I'm so very sorry that you are dealing with bladder issues too, Roxie! Do you know if you have Bartonella? It causes bladder issues fairly frequently called interstitial cystitis - an inflammation of the lining of the bladder.
www.health.harvard.edu/newsweek/Diagnosing_and_treating_interstitial_cystitis.htmThe 'good news' is that with treatment for Bartonella, the Interstitial cystitis resolves on it's own. I would encourage you to call your doctor to discuss this. There may be medications that will help if it's bad enough.