Hi Thoreau
Bumping this message and giving you some more information
You can surely ask here. But you will have to enable your email address (My Profile, Edit Profile, click on 'Show my Emailaddress', so that the other members can reach you. If you are not eager to put your existing email address available, you could create one just for this purpose.
We are not allowed to post dr's names or information about
them on the forum. If another member has information for you about
a LLMD or LLND, they can then get to you through pm.
You could also go to the ILADS website and ask for an LLMD in your area.
ilads.org/ilads_media/physician-referral/Good luck to you and your wife!
MarieLS