I'm happy to help Silvercow. :)
You can contact ILADS to find an ILADS trained doctor. They should be able to tell you if your doctor is ILADS trained.
http://ilads.org/ilads_media/physician-referral/I think you have enough to keep pursuing Lyme. Is your doctor treating you?
If you can't tolerate antibiotics, there are well established herbal protocols, such as Buhner. I have a hard time with antibiotics. I have to go slowly. I suspect I likely have methylation issues, which I need to confirm. A good LLMD can help guide you through these issues.
I would start by finding out if your doc is ILADS trained. If you need help finding a different LLMD, we can help.