Stacey, I am so sorry you are feeling so badly.
First, I do not think you were on doxy long enough. Yes, long enough to feel worse, but not long enough for treatment.
My suggestions are to read through the detox methods and pick and choose ALL the easiest for you to do. Not all at once but gradually adding one by one. GRADUALLY!!!
www.tiredoflyme.com/detox-methods.htmlThe detox methods I love may not be the ones you love and most importantly that work for you.
The best start is lemon water. Honestly this one cannot hurt you.
I cannot do the sauna or baths. I can't do hot anything. But, I am not you and lyme is VERY Individual.
Crying is not a bad thing. I think I cried my entire first 3 months. Then someone said that lyme bugs can be in your tears and boy did I got for that!! I pictured each tear was bugs going out of me!!!
I do not know herx versus lyme symptoms. Someone else will have to expound on that one. I KNOW symptoms and they are weird and different and it got to the point that if my finger itched, I chalked it up to a lyme symptom!
Hang in there and if you need to just chat, we are here.