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i dont think i am doing this right but i forgot another scary thing, i have lost control of my bowels on many occasions, hence, ibs, but i have bouts of constipation that are severe. i have had to go to the hospital and get cleaned out, i have had to go to the er and get cathed because i could not urinate. now i urinate all over myself, i can just stand up and without any warning it just flows or it happens in my sleep and i dont know it, i am 44 years old and have to wear pads and use pads in bed, SICK OF IT, anyone who has ms please tell me what you think , this is the 2nd post, the first one i did has a lot of info-the sweating profusely has gotten me or the night sweats, i have had every blood test you can think of, including hormones, thyroid, all good, HELP