Just felt the need to put my two cents in. I can't remember any doctor telling me to expect those urges after surgery. Luckily, the good people on this forum helped me realize that it was normal after a total colectomy. I still have the urges after 6 months but not as often. Plus, the drainage is continuous. Sound gross but it isn't that bad. From what I have read you will be better after the next surgery.
Jennie