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Posted 3/11/2008 7:55 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks for the support guys.

 

Post Edited (Ash83) : 3/20/2008 10:12:27 PM (GMT-6)

Posted 3/11/2008 8:05 PM (GMT 0)
Awwww, how sweet. What a nice thing for them to offer to you and others who have lost. I think you are an inspiration - I can sense how proud you are every time you mention your girls - I know they hold a special place in your heart, and I am happy you will be able to honor them in this way.
Posted 3/11/2008 9:17 PM (GMT 0)
Ash83,
Hey remember me? We shared similar stories. I think it would be great for u to go. Like u said, it'll help the grieving process. I finally got my babies ashes back from the hospital last month and had a little funeral for the three of them on Feb 14. Valentines Day out of all days. It was just the immediate family and after that I felt such a sense of relief and was so happy that they're finally put to rest after 6 months. Things are still hard but you take it one day at a time and as long as u have a strong support system u'll be ok. Our babies are all playing together and protecting us from further heartache. My prayers are with u and wish u all the luck on that day. U don't want to regret not going.
Posted 3/11/2008 10:25 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Ash,

Im so glad ur getting an opportunity to share publicly your love for your girls. I know it will be theraputic, and while mayb hard, it will probably make u feel better in the end. I'm proud of you for deciding to go.

Posted 3/18/2008 4:32 PM (GMT 0)

Hi Ash,

What a nice idea...you should definitely go.  It won't be easy but it will be therapeutic and maybe help alleviate some anxiety.  You have been through so much but you have a strong support system in your fiance and friends & family who will help you through this step as well.  You should be very proud of yourself...your positive attitude and support for all of us is invaluable.  My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Posted 3/19/2008 6:50 AM (GMT 0)
ash, that is such a cool idea and i think it's brave of you to go. i think stuff like that is hard but also healing and is a great way to remember and honor your little girls. allow yourself to feel whatever it is you are feeling, because it is all part of the process. i've had a lot of loss in my life, but never a child and i can't imagine dealing with that. you seem to be such a strong girl and are so sweet and helpful for so many people on this site. know that we are all here for you if ever you need to talk (or type i guess). take care and i'm glad you're going to go to the memorial event. xoxo, headphones
Posted 3/19/2008 1:54 PM (GMT 0)
its completely understandable ash, ur doing fine. don't b embarrased, let it out. when is ur service?
Posted 3/19/2008 11:04 PM (GMT 0)
Ash ur so strong. Good for u and good luck with the service. My thoughts will be with u.

Headphones - u had an ileostomy while pregnant? Didn't that harm the baby? And are u currantly on TPN? I've been off since November. Hope u have a good delivery

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