KitKath,
Ive had my colostomy since April of 2007. At first they weren't going to do the surgery and 'just' do the radiation and chemo. I made it through the radiation but I am very small to begin with, plus have Crohn's so I was already going the the bathroom about
10 to 12 times a day. When I started the chemo I got down to 72 so they discontinued it and went right to surgery. They didn't think I would make it through the chemo. But yes, I AM alive now cancer free (knock on wood). Yes, they say you can do ANYTHING you did before but that's not entirely true. I CAN dance, but can't wear leotards without it bulging out and I can't partner like I could. Nor can I strain my abs because of the hernia. So. Oh well. I wasn't a professional and I am getting old anyway! I'll be 50 this year!
I don't remember if it was someone in here that told this story, but most of my friends know about
the ostomy so when it really makes noise around them I just say "Thar she blows" and it's good for a laugh.
I wear 'Assets' panties from Target over the bag. They are like 'Spanx" and they kind of muffle the noise too.
Are you losing your hair? They told me I probably wouldn't with the type of chemo they use for rectal cancer. Maybe just thin it. But the radiation already did thin my hair. You MUST keep in touch with us during this. Not an easy ordeal to go through. I'm thinking about
you.
And Happy Fourth of July everyone! I am having a friend over for BBQ, fireworks and a couple of Rum drinks!