Hi All,
It has been a little while since I have given an update on my daughter Takera...she had her TC on 6/5/08,and we are still in the hospital...thigs are not going as well as planned/thought. They finally took her NG tube out 6 days ago,and she is allowed to sip on clear stuff,her bowell sounds are finally coming back,and since she is not eating,they have put her on TPN/LIPIDS for 16 hours a day, She still has had no BM,they have her on motility drugs round the clock,and we are back to sitting on the toilet and pushing,3x a day...she does pass a little gas though...she is getting bloated and distended again,not like before they did the s/x,but for someone w/ no colon,and almost no rectum left,she is distended...drs are not happy,we are not happy...she wants to eat so bad,she wants to go home,and she wants to go to the bathroom!!! They are talking about different things now,to get her to start going...none of which she is happy about,enemas,rectal tubes etc...back to the begining it seems like...she has had a lower Gi last week and everything looked good ,no leaks or blockages,but they had o sedate her for that ,and she was still crying and yelling during that "stop torturing me,it hurts!!" I don,t see how we are going to go back to that other stuff w/ her being like thatI don,t think the drs understand...that is all she has known her whole 11 yrs of life,and shes done!!! This was my bigest fear w/ this s/x...all of her other other s/x,s hanever worked out like they were supossed to either,thats why we wante dto go to a bag...to me it does not make any sense,a bag could CURE her,no more meds,no pain,no ennemas,no rectal tubes etc...she could have a life,for the first time ever...eat what she wants,swim,run,jump,etc...not feel sick everyday,not eat half a happy meal and be full,no more liquid diets,high fiber diets,soft food diets,and every other diet you can think of ...We are having a big team meeting on tuesday 7/1/08...I hope we all come to some of the same conclusions...QUALITY OF LIFE...it has to be considered...now though we have to let her body heal,even if we all decide that a bag is the way to go...more waiting,and in the mean time,do we go back to square one????? I,m venting a little...this web site has been a blessing,just talking w/ people that have been in the same place, it really helps alot. Anyhow just keep us in your prayers,and we are still praying for all of you that have just had s/x or having some complications...I know beyond a shadow of a doubt,that GOD has a plan through all of this,and that I have to trust HIM...HIS ways are not our ways,and HIS thoughts are not our thoughts...and HE does have a HOPE and PLAN for Takera,no matter what it seems to look like at this moment...Thanks for letting talk !! It really helps!
Krista & Takera