Hi Everyone,
Hope you are all doing well! Sorry I haven't had time to write but I've been super busy at school; I usually get there at 6:30 am and don't leave before 6:30 or 7:00 at night then have dinner & do paperwork until 10:30 or 11. It's a long day but I really love my class and love being back at school:) I have decided that I need to start making myself go home by 5 everyday so that is my goal this week. I have 24 kids in my class which is a LOT as we have always had between 16 to 18 so they decided to drop on of our teachers then we had a huge influx of kids move into the district but they never added another teacher back to us. I also have all of the classified children and a few behavioral children but I asked for them because I brought my last years class with me and they were such a great class that I knew they would be awesome role models for other children :) and I couldn't face another person being their teacher if I was going to be moving up a grade.
I had my stent surgery yesterday and have some good and not so good news; first, the ureter surgery he did this summer was a success and is working very well, YAY!!!!! Now the not so good news, the problem is my kidney and once again my body is not the norm. My dr said it's a very complicated case and I told him he doesn't know how many times I have heard this. I've actually had 3 drs ask me if I wold be willing to donate my body to science when I die, I said I never thought about it but maybe I should. Anyway, there is a tube in my kidney that's formed incorrectly. I actually had a urologist tell me I had a deformed tube in there 11 yrs ago and that there wasn't anyway to fix it and I'd eventually have to have the kidney removed but I put it out of my mind because I didn't have anymore stones until 5 yrs later and this dr retired and I had different drs who kept telling me I had hydronephrosis (build up of urine) because I didn't drink enough even though I told them I drank at least a gallon of water a day.
So my new dr says that there isn't a way that he knows how to fix it but he put a stent way up into the kidney to see if it would help with drainage and with the pain and if it does he will change it every three months as planned and research till he can find a way to help me. He said that if the pain doesn't go away that it may be scar tissue around the kidney but already I am urinating almost hourly so that's a good sign.
My husband is so stressed over all of this and is so sad because I'm going through it but I keep assuring him it's to help our relationship grow (as it has in so many ways) and just the day before my surgery I told him that my dr needs to learn something new and my body is going to help him. I had no idea at the time why I said it but now I know why; I'm very confident that God led me to him because he is the one who will find a way to fix the tube and go on to help others with the same problem in the future.
While I was in the holding tank waiting for surgery, I saw my colon surgeon; he stopped by to see me. I seriously don't know how he remembers me because he's in a practice by himself and he has thousands of patients; he does surgery 3 days a week from 1 pm until late at night then all day Thurs & Fri. into the late evening. He never finished mine until 10:00 at night and he always comes to see you everyday in the hospital at 5:30 in the morning; he's beyond amazing!!!!!! He asked all about why I was there again and how my bowels were, I told him to go home, he just smiled and said he had 3 more to do & it was 5:00; he's a super machine. That's why I will never go to anyone else (he's a general surgeon).
Time is getting close for a lot of you, especially you Lizzie; I pray for you every day and can't wait for you to feel better. Alwaysknow I'm thinking of you and I love you.
Jen & Jenise- I know it's easy for us to say to relax but do try to. As everyone has said on here, it's the best thing they have ever done even if they did have complications and not all us had any. Biggest advice: ALWAYS use prep H wipes and use A&D ointment at least for the first six months and MOST IMPORTANT***STAY on the low residue diet, even if your dr tells you that it's ok to stop after 6 wks. Many of the people on here's dr told them they could eat what their body could tolerate and most of them have had some kind of complication. Keep your spirits up and know that I'm praying for a successful surgery for you both as well as a quick recovery. Much love to you both:)
Janie, Christy, Hodaya, Marisa- I hope you are all doing well and know that your in my prayers.
Love and hugs,
JUDY