Greetings! I'm asking this question on behalf of my husband who has been an ileostomate for 10 months now. While he's adjusted admirably, there is one issue that is ongoing and causing him quite a bit of stress.
It seems that everytime he removes a bag in order to replace it, his stoma will expand. We aren't sure if it's the air hitting it, or if it's because he does it immediately after taking a hot shower. The problem is that once the stoma has expanded, he must cut a hole in his replacement bag that is big enough to accomodate it, but then once the bag is on the stoma will gradually shrink again and remain smaller, meaning the bag won't be a proper fit.
Any ideas? Why is his stoma expanding - is this common or normal?
Thank you so much for any help you can give us!