Lori,
I've been waiting to hear from you! I know this is a huge surgery, but you're in great hands. Before my surgery I asked my surgeon what the worse thing that could happen would be and he said "you could die". I think that's just one of the things they have to warn you about
. There is always that possibilty, but we're all going to think positively and soon you'll have your life back. I know it's only natural to be scared, and I would too, but please try not to drive yourself nuts worrying. Keep talking to us here about
how you're feeling; we'll all be here for you:)
Rottiemom,
My colon was over 8 feet long and very twisted. My doctor wouldn't consider leaving any of the colon, he said statistics show that with CI, removing part wouldn't work. As it turns out, removing all of it didn't completely work for me either. For the first 3 months, I went about
10-20 times a day. I never minded going so much, it was the first time in my life I wasn't stopped up! Then around month 4 things slowed down so much, and eventually in October I started taking miralax. It's made a big difference, but I still resort to enemas and prune juice fairy regularly. It's pretty discouraging but still much better than I was before surgery. I definitely have pelvic floor dysfunction, which is my biggest problem now. I still don't understand why the first few months were so good though. My surgeon is pretty surprised, too.
Hodaya,
I'm so sorry about
your doctor visit. My doctor pretty much said the same thing to me when I was having so much rectal pain. He didn't even recommend miralax; he just said all he could offer me was a stoma! I said what about
if I try miralax and he said "that's a good idea". I think he just didn't want to deal with any problems. I still need to go back to get the results of my last mamometry (sp?) but I keep putting it off because I'm trying to figure out what to tell him about
how I'm doing. Some days the miralax works really well, other days not so well. I'm sure alot has to do with my diet, but I try to copy the foods I eat on a good day, but it doesn't always work that way. I'm still not eating much during the day, and after my evening miralax I sometimes go alot of times, and sometimes just get bloated and have that horrible rectal pain until I use an enema. It's just so discouraging, as you know. good luck sweetie!
Peltzier,
I've read your previous posts, but I guess I really didn't understand completely how difficult things are for you. I'm so sorry, and it just makes me sick that a doctor can have so much power. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Maybe you've said before, but I don't remember seeing it. I pray you'll find someone to help you.
Gotta run for now, but would love to talk to you all. I truly wish we could all get together for a reunion one of these days.
Hugs,
Janie
Post Edited (Janiepain) : 3/9/2010 5:54:03 AM (GMT-7)