Rcn96- Hello and welcome!
I am 24, and had a total colectomy (with ileorectal anastomosis) for colonic inertia in November 2007 when I was 21. I have motility problems throughout my GI tract, so please feel free to ask anything! First off, I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this completely on your own.
1. Pre-admit - standard blood work was the extent for me. I don't have any cardiovascular issues, so they didn't do an EKG. Night before surgery was the dreaded bowel prep- what a nightmare.
2. Post-op - I was out of it for several days. I am about 5'6"/5'7" and went into the surgery weighing about 85 lbs. They started IV lipids as soon as I woke up, and they put a PICC line in the day after surgery and started TPN. My mom is a nurse, and she was there pretty much all the time. Even though she was there so much, the nurses at the hospital still took great care of me.
3. Hospital stay - I was in the hospital for nearly 11 days for several reasons: I weighed 85 lbs, my gut wasn't waking up, and I lost two units of blood. The blood loss was not from the colectomy. My counts didn't drop until after the PICC line was in- even though the guy who put the line in did an absolutely phenomenal job, they had me on Heparin, so even the tiniest of bumps against the side of the vein with the PICC line upon insertion would cause bleeding.
I was on TPN for the duration of my stay, and the doctors seriously considered sending me home with it, but they wanted me to try without it first. My catheter was removed a couple days after surgery- earlier than they wanted to, but it stopped draining, so I had to urinate really bad but couldn't because the catheter wasn't working right. I didn't put on real clothes until the night I was discharged, and I didn't wear a pair of jeans until about 5-6 months after surgery. No joke! But everyone recovers differently.
Walking- walk, walk, walk! As soon as you can! The more you walk, the faster your gut will wake up. A physical therapist will probably come in and drag you out of bed a couple days after surgery. It starts with a couple of steps, then 10 feet down the hallway...it is slow and tedious going, but it will get easier. The narcotics also keep the gut asleep, but you MUST keep your pain under control. DO NOT get behind the pain and let it get out of hand because it is a nightmare to get it back under control if that happens
4. Nutrition - When I had my pre-admit blood work, the nurse also went over a lot of paperwork and information. It was then that I had the opportunity to opt for one of the clinical dietitians to review my case and meet with me. I cannot eat any dairy, soy, or red meat, and you have to go low-residue after surgery, so I wanted to hear what a pro had to say about the best post-op diet for me.
5. Discharge - I definitely needed help at home. You can't lift anything over 8-10 lbs for a certain number of weeks, my surgeon wanted me to stay off the stairs for awhile, and it was about two months before I was back to driving again. Maybe things would have been different if I had been stronger going into surgery, but in my opinion, this is the kind of surgery that you need help recovering with.
As far as supplies, stock up on ice cream, shake ingredients, juices (may have to be diluted), protein powder (make sure it's something you can tolerate before surgery- don't eat anything brand new right after surgery), pudding, jello, yogurt, applesauce, canned fruit (no pineapple) Gatorade, broth, eggs, protein, non-whole grain bread, very low-to-no fiber soups; things like that. No nuts, seeds, and high fiber things for awhile. If you end up with an ostomy, I'm sure the hospital will send you home with a supply.
6. How long until I felt like myself again...well...several weeks went by before I left the house for any reason other than a follow-up with my surgeon. The soreness hung around for awhile, and I was extremely exhausted. This surgery takes a lot out of a person, and your body is working overtime trying to rebuild and heal. I took incompletes in my classes starting at Thanksgiving break, had surgery November 26, 2007, and I was back in class for the spring semester on January 16, 2008, so that is when I really started being out and about again.
7. Misc. - Your behind may burn for awhile as the tissue adjusts to having more enzyme and acid-rich stool pass. Baby wipes and diaper rash cream are helpful. Don't go home without a filled prescription of an antispasmodic (gas pains and spasms of the small intestine hurt!). Super comfy and loose clothes. They will probably give you a daily Heparin (blood thinner) shot. Heparin really hurts, and the standard procedure is to give it subcutaneously in the abdomen. Ask the nurses to give it you in your thigh.
8. Complications - Just the blood loss, nausea, and a BAD reaction to some Phenergan for me, but there is a laundry list of things that can go wrong. If anything feels "off," SAY SOMETHING!!
9. Dehydration - I always have water with me; I drink a lot. The only time I have had problems with dehydration or my electrolytes getting off balance has been when I have to do an enema prep for another test (yes, we're still testing because I still have motility problems).
If you have any other questions, I'm more than happy to help in any way that I can. Post them here, or e-mail me at [email protected].
Allie