Hi everyone:
This is my first post. I am 49y and have constipation most of my life. It has worsened over the past 10 years. I have had 3 colonoscopies and a sitz marker study where all the markers were still present. I had a hysterectomy last Feb in an effort to help my constipation, my doc thought maybe i had endometriosis, well i didn't, i am glad my parts are out though. Of note, my surgeon said my colon was very enlarged and floppy, everyone in the OR made a comment about it, and that was after my colon prep. My GI doc says i need a colectomy. I have been on all the usual bowel meds and diets you can think of:, miralax, lactulose, gluten free, vegetarian, lactose free, dairy free, vit c, senna, magnesium. I found that what really works best, is if I eat a minimum amount of food in conjuction with my mag and sennakot. My GI doc is trying to get me an appt at Mayo, because I want a second opinion to make sure I really need my colon out. Like many of you, sometimes I too wish I was dead, so this suffering would be over with. I don't like having to get up 3 hours before anyone else, so that I can try to have a BM. I never eat meals with people at work, because I know it will just cause me abdominal pain, I try to eat very little at work. I feel my overall health will eventually suffer.Without any meds, nothing happens. My fear is what would life be like after a total colectomy, will I still have bowel issues and pain. Sometimes my belly bloats up so bad, I look 6mo pregnant. My husband doesn't know the pain I have been through, because I hide it from him. I think it is hard enough for a husband to have to live with someone who has chronic abd pain and constipation. Reading some of your stories, I feel torn on what to do. I pray God leads me to what I should do. I don't want to have other problems. Minimally eating helps, but I feel weak alot. Thanks for listening. Any advice is appreciated.