I would give a cautious endorsement for "the bag" as well. My situation was similar to Smackie - two weeks before my 30th birthday, I started getting sick, and four weeks after that my colon perforated. I had no choice in the matter, which was probably fortunate, as like most I would have tried the drug route first. Hindsight is 20/20, but I have come to the conclusion it's best to get the surgery while you're young, rather than destroy your body with drugs for 10-20 years first. My DX is in-determinant, but leaning heavily in the direction of Crohn's. My surgeon at Northwestern in Chicago was willing to give the J-Pouch a shot, but my rectum is in fairly good shape.
If you decide on surgery, Probiotic's solution is probably best....give the "Step 1" Ileo a good long spin before moving onto the next step. Even though it's an option for me, I think I'm just going to stick with the ileo. I understand the cosmetic reasons for a j-pouch, but I just don't think the risk is worth the "reward" of getting to go to the bathroom 6 times a day....
Getting up in the middle of the night is a little annoying, but in the end, it's not that bad. You can also plan around it to a certain degree - ie: if I have a really early dinner....say 5-6 PM, and go to bed at my normal 10-11 PM, I will usually pass it by then and can sleep through the night. Even if you do have to get up, it's a fairly quick operation -- don't turn on any lights, keep it brief, and you'll be back in bed asleep like nothing happened.
Post Edited (TheDuque) : 12/14/2013 8:10:09 AM (GMT-7)