theresas post was great...i cant add much to it except for to tell you my specific experience.
i hvae a j-pouch...did the surgery three part....first surgery was emergency adn i was very sick going into it, and i was out of work recovering for about 8 weeks....but thats not 8 weeks of misery by any means...there was consistent measurable progress...its simply adjusting to teh ostomy, adn recovering from the surgery....
2nd surgery, i was out exactly 4 weeks recovering, and it was maily just being tired....and adjusting to teh stoma change (in three part, after first part its an end ileostomy, after 2nd its a loop, and more difficult to manage)...
3rd surgery i had about 4 weeks ago.....and this is a very different experience for everyone.....me personally, im dealing with gas problems when trying to sleep, and multiple bms, primarily at night, causing some sleep difficulties, and it has been a challenge adjusting....BUT everyone is different. i know people on this board and jpouch boards that were good to go only a week after.....
as everyone will tell you, on the boards you may run into people having problems, but thast generally why they are here....there is an overwhelming amount of success with this surgery and satisfaction with it, but none of them want to run on the internet find boards, and brag lol.