WillieWonka said...
Thanks everyone (and thank you Sue for what you do!)
I'm 90% sure I'm going with permanent ileostomy. I just can't deal with frequency, urgency, fear of soiling with the pouch and likely the IRA - and my career isn't suitable to it. Having a bag puts me more in control and I need that.
I just need some reassurance that everything else is still going to work 'fine' after being cleaned out. I know there's low risk of complications, but would like to hear experiences from others who've had Proctocolectomies and how their other functions are working. I know.. silly.. and I really don't have a choice unless I want to become a cancer patient and here I am wondering how everything else is going to be...
I have had my jpouch for 3 months so far. Don't mess with jpouch, don't mess with IRA. If you are OK with an ileostomy, make your life simpler, eliminate months/years of recovery, and eliminate your UC symptoms. The only reason to get a jpouch is because you do not want a stoma, which is almost completely a psychological self-acceptance issue. Do not be fooled like I was, these two operations are NOT equal and the stoma operation is much more reliable and you will not be worried about
pouchitis, cuffitis, other complications, and the "what if I need to get a permanent end ileo anyways..." Right now I'm one of those young, otherwise perfectly healthy young people who get told there is every reason that I will have a great time with the jpouch and am going through UC-like symptoms since ileostomy closure. You also seem to have higher cancer risk, so getting everything taken out seems like the best plan.
I remember how scared I was that I would wake up impotent from pouch surgery. Thankfully I didn't, and the rate at which this happens is really quite low (1-2% with skilled surgeon). It's also much lower in young guys like us. What will be more dangerous is if you need to take that risk a second time... which is a possibility if you get a jpouch or IRA and it fails.