Posted 7/2/2016 4:49 PM (GMT 0)
Clara,
I had lost about 30 pounds due to Crohn's in the months prior to emergency surgery. I'm 5'8 and weighed 105 lbs. After surgery the surgeon ordered Ensure while I was in hospital and told me to continue after I went home. I didn't like the taste and since I needed to gain weight, my husband made milkshakes. To the Ensure he would add ice cream and a variety of other things. Different flavors of ice cream, ice cream toppings, bananas or other fruit, peanut butter... whatever he could think of to include calories.
My only food blockage started with cramping and I realized there hadn't been output for awhile. When the cramping got worse it occurred to me there was a blockage. I had heard at a support group meeting that grape juice was good for blockages so I started drinking it and massaging my abdomen until it broke apart.
For a year prior to the adhesion blockage my stoma would swell to about 3 times it's size. My GI looked at it and since it still was red and functioning, and abdomen only slightly distended, he suggested I use a cold pack. This happened probably 3 or 4 times and would last a few days. It was very uncomfortable, but only mild pain. The last time I thought it was the same thing, but it kept getting worse and though I had a light breakfast with coffee I realized there was no output. I happened to be visiting my cousin, whose wife is an RN so when my belly looked like I was pregnant, with intense pain, and I started vomiting blood she called 911. After the NG tube was inserted in the ER they did a cat scan to determine the blockage and admitted me. The next morning I was visited by a surgeon and WOCN who took the pouch off to look. The stoma was about 4 or 5 times it's normal size and turning a purple-black due to ischemia. After 3 unsuccessful dilation procedures I had surgery to correct. It couldn't be determined if dilation had been performed during an earlier incident, surgery might have been avoided.
To make a long story short (too late?) always check the stoma for changes. It should be red and moist. It is naturally swollen for a time after surgery, but swelling should gradually decrease not increase. Adhesions and kinks can also cause a temporary food blockage. Probably only a GI or surgeon can determine the exact cause.
One other thing... he shouldn't eat too much at one time then nothing for hours. Try to have something every 2 or 3 hours to keep the GI tract moving. (I still do this) Eat slowly and CHEW thoroughly, even with soft diet. Unless you plan to change the pouch that day, start each day with a glass of water or other liquid to jumpstart GI activity. I drink water first because I wake up a bit dehydrated.
It may not seem like it now, but after the healing process, life with an ostomy can be a blessing when compared to the disease that necessitated it.
My thoughts are with you both!