First, that was SO NOT a stupid question, lol. When they told me they would remove my butthole, I could not for the life of me figure out how you remove a hole! I still don't really know and it's been gone for almost two weeks, lol. I had UC (cured now, WOO HOO!) and they had to take it out, but they go in and sort of cut around I think. They told me they would pull part out through the bottom. Anyway, right now I have like an icky bumpy thing down there, but I am sure that will go away.
Just to let you know, I am only two weeks post surgery and it was super hard at first, and I still feel icky from surgery but I feel SO much better in other aspects. I did something today I haven't done in almost 5 years, I ate in the car and didn't worry about a bathroom being near by! And I know that sounds stupid to most people, but anybody with UC or Chrons knows thats a big deal, lol.
Everyone on this board is super helpful and always really nice.
Good luck!