Elisha,
Thanks for the update on Samie. I'm so glad to hear that her stoma has already started working. She should definitely ask the nurse to give her a sponge bath or have them find out if she's allowed to take a shower. They can put a plastic bench in the shower for her to sit on, so she doesn't have to stand the whole time. It will make her feel so much better to feel clean.
My stoma is 1 1/2 inches, and it works great, so please tell her that it's okay. The stoma does not put out constantly, so it's normal for it to be active after eating and then not do much until the next meal. Is she on solid food yet? It's important for her to walk the halls as much as she can and to drink plenty of fluids. Tell her we're thinking about her!