Official: bad stoma

Well, it is official.  I have a bad placed stoma. My stoma nurse just left and she even said that if it was intended to be permenent that they would re-do it.  I actually looked at it with a mirror today and it is awful.  Literally, the discharge opening is even with my skin and the "mucous" opening appears to be gone. She said that she can see that a couple of the stitches fell out or whatever and that is why is fell in. Then, my skin is horrible.  It has one specific area that has a hole-like that is filled with pus/stool????  Guys....it looks bad. So, she fit me in a super small cut of only 7/8's so the wafer would be tight to the stoma and ideally, it would be best if it would stick to my skin around the stoma....but it doesn't because the stoma is just too damp so I feel like all the stool now is just going to go under the wafer. He approach is opposite of the cleveland clinic stoma nurse who told me to cut it wider to allow for discharge.  Any thoughts? This is the 2nd step of the pouch with a loop ileostomy.

I am so sorry that you are having a bad time with your stoma.When are you having your reversal?When I had my stoma I got one spot about the size of a nickel that was bad and no mater what we did it would not get better.As soon as I had my reversal you could see it getting better every day.So I hope that your reversal is soon.My sister is a nurse and she told me just a few days before my reversal that the one thing you can try is a old remedey of using baking soda on the area that is bad every time you clean it.The ostomy nurse said that it dos work alot of times but since it is a old treatment that most ostomy nurses forget that it can work or thay are young enuff that thay dont know that it is a treatment.Hope that you find something that will work for you.