Lizzie,
You asked all the right questions and are not being listened to.
If they have to do an emergent ileostomy and it does not work and you die, they are liable and would be up for a wrongful death suit, if you do have SMA and have not received the CT angiogram that Peltz mentioned AND that you have asked about. lEGALLY THIS IS CALLED "LOST CHANCE."
You do have an ally in your corner, the rounding nurse that you mentioned. Would you be able to run this by him?
THE MOST CRITICAL THING TO MENTION IS THAT THIS VOMITING STARTED BEFORE YOUR ILEO TAKE DOWN. thIS IS the SIGN THAT YOU HAVE UNDERLYING MOTILITY ISSUES.
MENTION THAT IF YOU HAVE NOT ALREADY. As if you don't already have enough to do, you now have to play hard ball more so than ever in your life.
If they propose the emergent ileo, WRITE UP YOUR OWN CONTRACT SAYING THE FOLLOWING: i, lIZZIE tINSMAN, HAVE REQUESTED TESTING TO RULE OUT SMA (SPECIFICALLY CT ANGIOGRAPHY) PRIOR TO HAVING ANY FUTURE SURGERY." YOU SIGN IT AND FORCE THEM TO SIGN IT. mY GUESS IS ONCE THEY START SIGNING THINGS THEY MAY START TO LISTEN AND DO THE TEST. THAT WAY IF THEY DO SURGERY AND YOU STILL HAVE NO OUTPUT, YOU CAN JUST SHOW THEM THE CONTRACT AND AT LEAST YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO LISTEN TO ALL THEIR "IT'S ALL IN YOUR MIND CRAP."
aLSO YOU ARE THE ONE WHOSE LIFE IS ON THE LINE.
cALL THE TELEPHONE OPERATOR OF THE HOSPITAL AND ASK TO SPEAK WITH THE PATIENT ADVOCATE. gIVE THEM THE SHORT FORM AND ASK THAT YOU HAVE THE TEST FOR SMA. hAVE THE ROUNDING NURSE ALSO SPEAK TO THEM. yOU ARE FIGHTING FOR YOUR LIFE, NOBODY ELSE WILL.
Sorry of all these capital letters, this computer is possessed.
good luck. rOSEMARY