Hi,
I didnt have the same problems as you i never went to the toilet on my own from 2 weeks old so suffered badly all my life till i was 46, i was too scared to go to the doctors because i thought i would have to have a stomabag, i saw a mr richard cohen at the uclh and after a year of tests i had a sub total colectomy & ileorectal annastomosis in sept 2008, it took about 6 months to start feeling normal agin but about a year to completely recover, i was in theatre i think for about 7 hours but it as changed my life completely i am a new person and now wish i had it done years ago, i dont have a bag at all its fantastic , i go to toilet like normal people now the first time in 46 years i would really recommend going ahead but go to mr cohen if you can, i think if you go to your gp you can choose to see him, good luck
Debbie