I've had three stomas so far, and this third one is the only one that has caused me this many problems.
about
three years ago I had my colon removed, and the first stoma was beautiful, the only pain i had was caused by my inexperience at dealing with the bandage when I would have bouts of terrible skin irritation, but that made sense at least and was my own fault for not being diligent enough. My second one was the one I was given during the j-pouch construction when they gave me a new one so that my j-pouch could heal properly. That one I also didn't experience any pain with, and I was taking care of my bandage well by then so that one went by perfectly. The only pain i ever experienced with these two was when i didn't chew my food enough or i would eat something that came out to bulky--and even then it was rare for me to experience pain from them.
This third one i had to get when the j-pouch failed and I had to go back to living with an ostomy, a choice that I was fine with as my main goal in life has always been to be a mom, and the more abdominal surgeries someone has the less likely to conceive they are.
Anyway, for the first couple of months i didn't experience any problems and all was going well, but then about
once every few weeks i would have terrible pain that would make it unbearable for me to even walk around. Then it started to happen about
once every week, and now it happens at least once a day and usually after I eat (no matter what it is or how well i chew, the pain always seems to come) my natural reaction would be not to eat, but with my high metabolism and no colon to properly digest what food i do eat, i'm pretty thin and not eating would make it hard for me to function (i have no idea how anorexics manage).
I have a terrific job as a server at Medieval Times, but it's very physically demanding. I love working there but today about
1/3 of the way into the show i had to ask my boss to get someone to cover my section, I was in so much pain that I could barely make it around the arena. I thought that having an ostomy would end all the pain that UC has caused me, I mean remove the problem organ (my colon) and all should be well, but apparently that isn't always the case. My output is traveling, so I don't think it's a blockage but i'm also experiencing this sore, bruising pain to the upper right that I've seen other people associate with a blockage.
I'm so confused, and my doctor thinks its what i'm eating, but with an ostomy your suppose to be able to eat almost anything that a normal person would. I don't want to lose a job I love because of this issue, and I don't know what to do about
it or what it could be :(
Have any of you experienced this or know what it could be? I'd really love the help