I don't use any tape around my wafer. Actually, I use a no-tape version of the Convatec wafer, because the tape that is on them normally really irritates my skin.
I was also going to suggest the "Sure Seal" product. I use them when I know I am going to be getting extra wet, or when I feel like I just need a little extra security. They really help keep water away from the wafer, hold it on extra tight and keep leaks from turning into big messes. You can get free samples and see how they work for you. Here is the link for ordered samples in Canada. Good luck!
www.alpglobal.com/Free-Sample-Request.html