Night Clubs

well, i'm a dude here....but in my experience, usually they don't feel up the girls so much as the guys....

i have never thought of that....but i go to the same club(s) over and over and know the bouncers..

maybe you could whisper to the bouncer / doorman that you need to talk privately for a second....and warn them that you have a pouch attached for medical reasons....

or just say....trust me....you don't want to push too hard on that spot.....

where do live? if it's in LA, i could tell you about some places that don't even have a doorman or check id....and are cooler than any other spot anyway

yeah....yur club scene is supposed to be more hip than LA too.....

good luck with going out and having fun.....

i think as long as you drain/vent your puch before getting searched they may not even feel it..

i checked the ostodate site....only one girl in California on there.....oh well...i sent her a "Hello"