She has been with her boyfriend and he was sucking at taking care of her. He can barely keep a job and I just got him a car. Anyone his Mom recently died and since they were both living with her they are being kicked out. He wasn't giving her meds properly, etc...
I got her Medicaid and two weeks ago had her placed in a nursing facilty near me. She had been left alone M-F for 15 hours a day and now that I see her more often I can't imagine how she made it :(
I am happy with the care she is getting..at least she isn't alone all day every day fending for herself anymore.
I don't know what to do with her boyfriend though..I have power of attorney and he is driving the nursing home crazy..being rude to everyone and calling her a million times a day. Mind you..she can't hold the phone to her ear by herself and he just upsets her when he calls and about 20 min later she doesn't even remember talking to him.
HELP..What do I do????? He needs to back off andf let her get use to her new surroundings..
Also..how should we handle her paranoia? He indorses it while I try to tell her she is fine and it was just a bad dream