I was up until 4AM this morning reviewing the responses from other posters and working on my reply.
My uncertainty and my fear of making the wrong decision was strong. Had I had a smaller prostate I would have taken advantage of one of the many HIFU trials going last year. Would that have been the right decision? Is there ANY right decision?
My wife thinks I'm nuts, with early onset of some form of dementia. As she points out, "You're cancer free, you pee when you want to, our sex life is better than we thought it would be. What do you want? (I want that mechanical prostate with the hot fudge ejaculation).
She's an OR nurse and sees patients regularly who are MUCH worse off than I ever was. As she puts it, "I see patients with hemmorroids that are worse than your PC "
Did you review the posts in the topic: Head's Swimming, How Do You Decide? under the Prostate Cancer topic? A lot of careful thought went into the posters' responses.
You have the luxury of taking your time to make the decision that is right for you. The other posters are right. It's a decision that is different for each, and so many factors enter in. I will say this, you are walking the walk, and there is no such thing as too much knowledge. If you keep working at it, you will come to a point of confidence, as I did, that your treatment decision is the right one for you.
I freely admit that I am biased in favor of the robotic RP, and my bias is probably driven by my stellar outcome. I'm not the only one: Check out which treatment option most of the posters chose. One of the posters pointed out in rebuttal to my advocacy of robotic RP that only 60% of the RP's done at Sloan-Kettering are considered "successful" One of the unspoken issues here is surgeon competence. Is it possible that only 60% of the surgeons at SK are really great surgeons? If you DO decide on RP, then you have only made half of your decision. You still have to find that crackerjack surgeon who is consistently producing the outstanding results you want. Luckily, you have the time. Not only do your have the good cancer, you have early stage good cancer!
There is a lot going on re: PCa This post from John T is just one example:
https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35&m=1384654
One of the difficulties in making the best decision is not really knowing what is going on in your prostate. PSA and Gleason are statistically predictive for a large population, but each individual is different and biopsies are routinely proven inaccurate by the subsequent pathology report. An accurate imaging diagnostic would be a godsend to everyone. One wonders why this test (and HIFU) isn't available in the US ??? An accurate imaging diagnostic would drive a lot of decision making.
Johns Hopkins has an "expectant management" program for early stage PCa, perhaps that would be a good intermediate decision while you continue to process the huge volume of information? I admire your persistence in seeking out the best option.