I know I shouldn't say it, because someone will accuse me of being a surgical bigot, which I am not, but every once in a while we find an example of where surgery is the only way in some cases to know what really is up.
I realize the counter argument is to have a color doppler and maybe a Combidex, or some other not so readily available procedures to do a better job of diagnosing, or everyone has a 32 or 48 saturation biopsy to be sure that we correctly diagnosed the PC.
Until medicine and the insurance companies can come up with a protocol that keeps these misdiagnosed cases from occuring, for many, surgery is still a very good choice of treatments.
With a Gleason 9, I felt I didn't really have a better choice, so I went that route and it has been good. Upgrades of Gleason 6 to 7 are not rare, but 6 to 8 is quite a jump.
Best of luck to you guys. Glad you are in competent hands with Dr. Patel. We have heard good things about him.
Welcome to HW, and thanks for sharing your story.