Drums, I just added the info, but it's not showing up yet - normal?
JohnT, thanks so much for sharing your experiences too. I also appreciate the excellent criteria of 500 bracytherapies before Kurt is touched. Since I wasn't able to attend Kurt's appointment with Dr. Loblaw at Sunnybrook Health Centre in Toronto, ON, I have no idea how many he's done- I'll check that out, though. I noticed too that you had radiation treatments following your brachytherapy. Were your margins not clear, or was it as assurance that all cancer cells were gone?
Tudpock, you are so right that this should be a joint decision based on research done by both of us. You're right too about him blaming me if things didn't go well. Based on both ideas, I asked him whether he was in denial and he denied it and actually asked for the printout I'd made of your journey. He's reading it as I type. I've got to get 'the boy' on board!
Another big thank-you for activating your e-mail; I've done the same.
On April 7th, we're off to Sunnybrook for the pre-op and mapping procedures.