I'm going to wa

I had my open surgery on September 16th and everything went reasonably well.  The final pathology report indicated that the cancer was confined within the prostate and was downgraded from a Gleason 7 to 6.  In the intervening months, I still struggle a bit with continence as I go through a pad per day...some days are better than others.  I had my first orgasm (without a real erection) a few days ago.  I was supposed to have my 3-month psa follow up test last week.  Instead, I decided to wait until after the holidays.  While I believe that the results are going to be fine, I just don't want to have the test results hanging over my head during the holiday season.

I'm 64, Jeff.  As far as what I did to "get Junior working," it just sort of happened one night as I was laying in bed.  Please be aware, he was far from being hard, but he did respond to some gentle play on my part.

I am in the frozen north and had been doing lots of daily walking (on and off the golf course!).  Now, I'm confined to daily workouts in my basement gym and riding an exercise bike. 

For the incontinence, I'm doing 3-4 sets of 10 kegels daily.  I recently told my doctor that I can now crack walnuts between my butt cheeks!