Oncas,
I have a similar history to yours and am about to start HT. I started Casodex 2 weeks ago and will get Lupron shot next Tuesday.
It sounds like you have a good plan to see Dr Myers and Sloan.
I am confident you will have many more birthdays and will find a way to beat this thing back for a long time - just as I plan to do. Hang in there and stay positive.
Tim