Casey,
Just within the last two or three days we had a newcomer here on HW who posted as a Gleason 6, who when the final pathology was completed after surgery was found to have extraprostatic extension (EPE) as well as perineural extension into extraprostatic tissue. I've seen a number of others similar to this in the 15 months I've been here on HW.
How would those complications have been known if he had elected Active Surveillance? And while his PSA may have remained low during AS, what might have been going on with the EPE and the perineural invasion? Do we have any way at the present time of detecting those kinds of unexpected complications with a Gleason 6? Would he have been told he had an IDLE tumor, or would he have come home shouting, "Honey, I'm home! I have prostatic tubular neogenesis!"
I don't think calling cancer something other than cancer is the answer. I think perhaps a much more cautious approach after diagnosis but prior to treatment is the answer. Sure, a lot of guys will want the cancer taken out right now, and frankly if I were 45 years old, so would I and darn the consequences. But most of us take guidance from our physicians, and if the medical community has sensible guidelines, most men will defer treatment until the doctor says, "It's time." It's the urologists, the surgeons, the radiation oncologists, and others in the medical community...not the cancer patient... who need to stick to some sensible guidelines in deciding how and when to treat.