Dear ShoreGuy:
Welcome to HW. Sorry you have to be here but I think you will find lots of info and support from posters on this site. I have the following thoughts re your situation:
1. Reading protate pathology is more art than science. I would suggest that you have your slide sent to one of the acknowledged experts in the field like Epstein or Bostwick so you have a better idea about what you are dealing with.
2. You should get yourself educated on our disease. That means reading more than posts on the internet. Three good books are "Surviving Prostate Cancer" by Dr. Patrick Walsh, "A Primer on Prostate Cancer" by Dr. Strum and "Invasion of the Prostate Snatchers" by Dr. Scholz and Mr. Blum. Those three books will give you a broad persepective of prostate cancer.
3. Explore other treatment options. Take the time to consult with a radiation oncologist to see what he/she thinks. Depending on the case, radiation options may offer equal cure rates with significantly less chance of onerous side effects.
4. Whomever you choose for your treatment, make sure they are highly experienced. That means at least several hundred. Studies clearly show that experience matters and there is a wide variety of results based on the doctor you choose.
Good luck and please keep us posted,
Tudpock (Jim)