Ron_L said...
So, I guess I'm approaching a fork in the road, so to speak. I can move forward, at whatever pace) with a treatment that makes sense based on my current physical limitations, and implement a serious "get healthy" program that would continue after treatment OR Start he "get-healthy" program and then choose a treatment after I have reached a more "normal" health status. Unfortunately, to do that safely would take at least 12 months, and while 12 months may be OK I'm not sure that I can wait that long.
...ron
Start the
serious "get healthy" program before you worry too much about
what you are doing with PCa - it won't keep you from either moving forward on treatment or deciding to delay treatment until it's progressed a bit. ANd it won't keep you from doing more research. But it may actually even help slow your cancer down (not that it's likely to be a fast one with those numbers.) And it will help you in any case, even if you don't manage to turn into Mr. 6-pack abs. Talk to your primary care doctor about
it beforehand and see if your health insurance and/or employer has any support mechanisms, because it sure ain't easy. But it may also be the biggest
favor PCa can do quite a few of us. Unfortunate that it often takes something this dire to make us change, and I'll tell you that even then it's phenomenally hard to get eating habits reprogrammed (at least for me) but the fact is that you probably stand a much better chance of "dying from being unhealthy" than you do of "dying from PCa" unless you make some serious changes.
Among other things, radical prostatectomy by any method is serious surgery, and the ~3 hours being under are the most hazardous aspect of the robotic surgery, IMHO. Better fitness will improve your odds, even if it's "I get out and walk fast daily" and it's only taken off a few pounds or a single hole on the belt. If you can make it back to "overweight" from "obese" you'll not only make your surgical odds a great deal better for any surgery, you'll also make your life odds regardless of PCa a lot better. That may well be worth putting the treatment off for a year or more - the getting you in in 4 weeks thing is one of those "are they concerned for me, or concerned with a billable procedure for their bottom line?" things.
Edit. Dang, I totally missed that you got your dignosis on the Ides of March.