NY1971: Ok, like others have said, " if you don't have cancer, there is nothing to spread". If other tests (free PSA and PCA3 tests) come back suspicious, then you will certainly have to have the biopsy. This is how your dr. will present your options for treatment since much will be based on the results of the biopsy. I too worried
very slightly about
the biopsy "spreading cancer". But don't forget, leaving it there to be fed by your blood supply and interacting with all of the "plumbing" and nerves gives it a real chance to migrate.
No one is saying that you have prostate cancer, but your numbers are suspicious. If you are really against the biopsy for now, you must at least go for a free PSA and PCA3 test
NOW. This will give you more information. I think what you are experiencing is the same we all have. Anger & denial are all ways of dealing with hard parts of life.
I will be honest, you seem to be the same "type" of person that I am based on what you say in your second post. As my dr. said "let's find out for sure and go for the biopsy". Mind you my PSA was 3.3. I immediately agreed and it was caught in time with robotic surgery. I had immediate urinary control. After 8 months, my natural erections are coming back and it was like it never even happened! You say that you don't know how you will deal with it.......I am sure that we all said the same (I did). But even if it does turn out to be cancer, your dr. knows exactly how to deal with it. Put your trust in him. Put your trust in your faith (if applicable).
You will get thru this either way.....everyone on this forum has been where you are now! We are here for you!
Bill from New Jersey