cvc,
I think (hope) we are in agreement that an informed patient can decide if he wants to live with the information that a PSA test provides him, and then ask for/ agree to the test. You have already made that choice. If I were on the same path as you, I would say that the conversation is no longer relevant. The Pandora's box of PCa that hovers over every male's head is open for you and me, and even if it meant using a June PCa event to get a free test, I would be doing it (in fact I will do that in a few days - will be free and give me an annual test from a known lab to compare to my normal monthly test at another). But, as I implied before, hindsight is 20/20 for me in that respect.
The bruha is over screenings (that does not include diagnostic tests)that sweep in numbers of men that may not even know the test is being done. This doesn't even apply, in my opinion, to men's health events, since in those events, you must decide to participate.
I can see it being a life-changing-event for someone who discovers it due to an insurance application or job-related test, when they didn't even know it was being run. In those cases, panic could easily take over, and give "overtreatment" the opportunity to happen.
Maybe I just have a good GP, but he goes over all the tests he orders, and tells me why. Even that does not eliminate the possibility that he will find something completely unexpected on another front, and I'll be thrown in yet a different crisis. One day at a time -