FiftiesMale said...
I am curious (and will find out soon enough), when guys talk about desire not there, and no libido. Is it to the point where you see your wife naked and don't even have the thoughts? Or you have the thoughts, and yet no interest in pursuing or doing anything about it. I don't mean to belabor the issue/question, but I am perplexed. If you watch a movie that has sexy women in it, or walk through a store and see some young pretty women, has that receptor in your brain been switched off, to where you don't even notice. Or do you still get crazy thoughts, but no personal interest, no fantasy?
This is a good question...and I can only say how its been for me. In reality...the plumbing is still there...so a lot of it is mental. There is a trigger mechanism between the brain and the groin that gets you excited....the brain says yes....but it never gets sent to the groin area.
I find I can still have good sex with my wife but can no longer fantasisze about other women....I mean Pamela anderson can walk by me stark naked and I wont feel a thing....but If I know I am supposed to have sex with my wife then I can trick myself into doing this with a little help from my friend Levitra. I dont know why this is...but I believe its all mental and you can still make it happen. Ive been on HT for almost a year now and although my orgasms arent quite as strong as they were, they are still very satisfying and I am just as hard as I used to be with the levitra.
Im being very blunt here but I know you want to know exactly what will happen and I did too. I flet the exact same way and was worried more about lack of sex than curing the cancer. Now I find I can do both. Not gonna lie...it takes some work. Some guys find the pump works best....some use shots...and some dont get squat. I feel lucky I get what I can get with just a pill but everybodys different. Good Luck with your journey.