kjoe1947 said...
This is my first post. I had Davinci surgery Nov. 14, 2012. Catheter removed on 26th. Most days I go through 8+ pads. Haven't given up my one cup of coffee in the morning. I know I need to drink more water. I have been doing my Kegels.
My problem is I don't have the urge to pee during the days (nights I do OK). During the day I know I'm leaking and go to the toilet but only dribble (no stream). When I leave the toilet I began leaking again. So frustrating.
In the last couple of days I've found that when I go to try to pee if I just "slightly" strain (same type strain as if I were having a BM) while standing over the John, I can produce a good stream. My bladder doesn't hold as much yet as before surgery but I do get a good stream by using this slight strain method. I've also decreased the number of pads per day. You guys probably already know this, but I thought I would pass it on as it is helping me.
Age 65.
This is very similar to what happened to me. The first 3 months after DaVinci (June '12) were pretty rough, although I started out with "only" 5 pads per day. I had little if any control. I quit coffee totally, and only drank liquid when I was really thirsty.
Whenever I felt the urge I would hit the toilet but nothing more than a dribble or two would come out, even though I felt like I had a full bladder. My bladder was not really acting as a reservoir; urine was coming out of me about
as fast as my kidneys were producing it.
I was not working (thankfully) and got so tired of feeling urine coming out and not being able to stop it that I would just sit on the toilet and read. It was the only thing I could do where I could totally relax and not worry. I had been doing the max amount of Kegels, religiously, since the catheter came out (+8 days) but I still could not hold much back.
As I got towards 3 months I noticed pad use was down to 1-2 per 24 hour period. At my 3 month follow-up, my urologist suggested trying no pads. I had been toying with the idea for a couple weeks but didn't have the nerve to try it.
It was the right advice at the right time. At that point, much of my incontinence problem was in my head. Not wearing a pad forced me to concentrate on holding it. Now, at +7 months, holding it can still be a challenge especially when I'm on my feet, although sometimes it's a non-issue like the old days when I still had my prostate. I carry a pad in my truck, and carry a folded up paper towel in my back pocket.
Here's a tip, but I bet I'm not the first one to try it: In the evening if I leak I use a hair dryer to dry out my shorts. It only takes seconds and it beats the hell out of changing underwear all the time.
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EDIT to add: I never took "a healthy piss" until a couple of weeks after I got off the pads (surgery + 3.5 months). I never retained enough urine for that to happen, but once being forced to hold it I was taking the "racehorse" types again. And did it feel great! Those lucky racehorses.
Ah, the things we take for granted when young and healthy.
Post Edited (Bruze) : 1/4/2013 10:24:21 AM (GMT-7)