First post on this board. hate that i'm here. love that others have made the learning curve smaller.
Hubby diagnosed 20mos ago, biopsy and numbers show it's time to treat. He is scheduled for first HDR monotherapy this Tuesday, March 12. 2nd HDR the next Tuesday. This doc does 2 treatments on each day (4 total treatments on 2 days - no overnight hospital stay).
We both have been confident in the decision for HDR but the only thing that has been nagging in the back of my mind is how do you know if you have a doc with enough experience and if you are at the right center? Hoping JNF replies since he is in GA too, like us. We are in Augusta.
How do you find the most experienced center and doctor? It's not something the lady answering the phone gives you and the website doesn't list it! We had consults with 2 diff ROs in same practice -- supposed to be best group in our city -- and both docs avoided the question when asked directly on first visit about
how many of these they had done - which made me worry. It was odd tension and big general, "been doing this 5 years, don't know exact number, blah, blah". At pre-op visit this week, hubby asked doc again and he said he had done roughly 200 - he only does 1 a week and his schedule is full. Guess they only do 1 a week even if they had many wanting. We had to wait a month to get scheduled in.
So what do you do? Just call doc after doc and ask how many HDRs they have done and then schedule a consult with the guy with the biggest number? They don't give a number over the phone! And having random Level 5 consults over and over doesn't make sense. We had decided we would travel to Atlanta if needed but even then, how do find experience??? That one thing has been the WORST part of this decision making.
Hubby likes this doc, and doc has been doing HDR solely for 5 years. Said he doesn't even do seeds anymore personally -- he believes in HDR. He's one of the senior docs in practice, but why is it so hard to get a procedure *count* from a doc? We have a huge medical school research center here but it seems like HDR is still new in our town?
We know we want HDR -- 100% -- and with the procedure a few days away, I just don't know how to get this knot out of my stomach, or reassure myself that a doc who has done 200 of these is good experience. Wish there was some board of the best docs and the best treatment centers by city/state.
Sorry for rambling. Can't seem to make a concise thought as this gets closer. Will be a stressful final days until this procedure begins.
Jennifer