Hi Barb1. Sorry to hear about
the situation, knowing that these G9 cases can be tough to manage. I hope you're feeling some of the support the people on this forum can provide. I'm 56 too, and have some understanding of the impact of this diagnosis at our age. It's great you're here seeking knowledge to help your husband. I imagine he may still be deeply struggling with the whole thing, and it can be hard to get into a problem-solving mindset.
I've added your forum name to the G9 Crew list on this forum thread link. There are some special concerns for those facing this diagnosis, and you may find some comfort looking through the stories of so many G9 cases that are still plugging along. It's a pretty long thread, you'll definitely see you're not alone. There is still hope, even if things don't seem to be going the right direction sometimes.
www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35&m=2863652&g=2863652#m2863652