Oh, Ronnie, I'm so sorry. I've been there, more or less. Boy it sucks. Knocks a man flat.
At least they gave me a few weeks after surgery to get the bad news.
But since you asked for something to cheer you up and since my usual jokes don't seen quite enough just now, I will quote something that Tall Allen said in another thread yesterday.
In response to a request from MsWW, Tall Allen said...
MsWW,
There have been some intriguing recent studies on de-bulking in the case of metastatic disease. These are not RCTs - just analysis of the SEER database, so there may be selection bias.
In this one, they noticed that men who had an RP after diagnosis with mets had a 75% 5yr PC survival vs 49% among men who had no surgical or radiation treatment.
And in this one, they found a 72% reduced risk of death from PC.
The above also noted improvements from brachy treatment (they didn't look at EBRT, but I would expect similar improvements).
The natural history of disease progression seems to be that the cancer principally spawns from the prostate itself and continues to do so when the prostate isn't removed or zapped.
This is a very tough decision - to undergo the SEs of surgery for the survival improvement.
As you suggest, it also makes sense to me to shrink the tumors first with hormone therapy. The recent CHAARTED clinical trial demonstrated a significant survival advantage to beginning both Taxotere and ADT at the same time at diagnosis of metastatic hormone sensitive disease -- 3 yr overall survival of 69% with the Taxotere vs 53% with ADT only.
- Allen
So the good news there is that while you were hoping for a cure and didn't get one, you did get a helpful first treatment for your disease. You are not where you hoped to be but you are better off than you were. Having your prostate gone, and the original source of the cancer gone, you are more likely to respond well to HT and, possibly radiation.
It wasn't all for nothing.
Side note: As a moderator I can change the title of a thread if I want to. I've been thinking about
coming up with a mark I can put in the title when there is a question I can't answer and I want Tall Allen (or some other smarty pants) to drop in. Do you think this looks like the "Bat Signal"?
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