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Posted 10/4/2015 9:55 AM (GMT 0)
October 2, at 7:20 a.m. my husband passed. He fought this disease with everything he had in him, and he did it with strength, grace, and with the fierce desire to live. I will continue to pull for every person who has to fight this beast, and I have a huge soft spot for those who love those fighting.
My husbands battle is done. He did not lose, he just decided to find peace.

Love to all of you, and thank you for informing me, supporting me, and remember that NO ONE EVER FIGHTS ALONE.

Deanna Kay
Posted 10/4/2015 10:04 AM (GMT 0)
Deanna,

I am so sad to hear about your husband. He sounds like he led a very active life until he couldn't. I can't tell you enough how much I admire and respect the women who support and care for us. You are the true warriors, always a champion for our health and pushing the doctors to try harder, to think smarter. Thank you for everything you do.

May peace find your husband and you find peace with your loss.
Posted 10/4/2015 10:17 AM (GMT 0)
May peace be with you both. Thank you and bless you both for sharing your life with us. I am sure it has strengthened all who have learned from you.

He is now your guardian angel, may God bless you both.
Posted 10/4/2015 10:48 AM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have followed his battle through your posts as I do many of the courageous men here in this forum and each day I am awed by the strength and vigilance of their caregivers and reminded my journey could be far different. Thank you for sharing your lives and love with others.
Posted 10/4/2015 10:57 AM (GMT 0)
Deanna, so sorry for your loss. It hurts so bad when we lose one of our brothers, I know that nobody hurts as bad as you do today, but remember that nobody grieves alone here, we are all with you.
Your husband is no doubt a courageous man, and you have been just as courageous in this fight.
Peace be with you.
Posted 10/4/2015 11:48 AM (GMT 0)
I am so saddened to read this. Another fighter lost to this "best cancer," except when it isn't.

My condolences.

Mel
Posted 10/4/2015 12:15 PM (GMT 0)
How very sad, we all feel your loss and pain and pray for your emotional healing. Life is so fragile...
Posted 10/4/2015 12:18 PM (GMT 0)
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you cherish the good memories. I was just sharing with a friend about how much I really hate cancer and all of the pain and suffering that it causes. May you find peace.
Posted 10/4/2015 1:02 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna, please accept my sincerest condolences on your loss. Your husband was certainly not alone as you fought every step of the way with him. My prayers to you and your family.

Jim
Posted 10/4/2015 1:12 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna, so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace in the precious memories of your lives together. He was a fortunate man to have you by his side through the tough battle, and to be so loved.

Jerry
Posted 10/4/2015 1:17 PM (GMT 0)
Sad news, sorry to hear of your loss.

My condolences,
Andrew
Posted 10/4/2015 1:24 PM (GMT 0)
"NO ONE EVER FIGHTS ALONE."

And no one ever grieves alone. Not on this forum.

Think of all the pain and suffering that has now fallen away from your husband, and of the supreme joy that now fills him in that wonderful new place.

Very sincere condolences on your loss, and may comfort and peace find you at this time.
Posted 10/4/2015 1:42 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear of your loss.

Peace be with you.

Todd
Posted 10/4/2015 1:47 PM (GMT 0)
Hello Deanna

I'm very new around here but cannot let your post pass without expressing my condolences, deep respect for your husband and great admiration of your grace.

Paul
Posted 10/4/2015 2:27 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna,
So sorry to hear this news. Wishing you comfort and peace knowing that you made his battles easier to bear. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth
Posted 10/4/2015 2:38 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna,

We are all part of an extended family here. The loss of any one hurts us all. Because of the way we find our way here, we have a bond that is stronger than many of those in our day to day lives. The loss of any of ours here brings me pain and concern.

I wish you strength to get through these days, and courage to carry on for yourself and yours. When you need our shoulders, we are here.

My sincerest condolences.
Posted 10/4/2015 2:54 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna,

I'm so sad to read this...please take care of yourself now.

Lisa
Posted 10/4/2015 2:56 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna,
I'm so sorry to see another much loved man lost to this terrible disease. You've shown such grace even at the most stressful of times - when you weren't even aware.

Your last sentence struck me "He did not lose, he just decided to find peace." With those words you gave him the dignity he deserves.

You know here you will find help and those who understand.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
Susan
Posted 10/4/2015 2:57 PM (GMT 0)
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Blessings to you and your family.
Michael
Posted 10/4/2015 3:12 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
Posted 10/4/2015 3:21 PM (GMT 0)
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Michael
Posted 10/4/2015 3:50 PM (GMT 0)
You both lived with grace and dignity. It's not an end, just a new chapter. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jordan
Posted 10/4/2015 4:43 PM (GMT 0)
May peace be with you, Very sorry to hear this.
Hero
Posted 10/4/2015 4:46 PM (GMT 0)
We all share in your tragic loss. He has escaped the tethers of this madness now and his peace is eternal. Do not hesitate to come to this well for companionship and comfort.

Jim
Posted 10/4/2015 4:50 PM (GMT 0)
Deanna, many condolences to you.

Thank you for providing this group with closure, despite the difficulties in your heart.
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