Been away a couple of days, just seeing this thread.
Bohemond, from what I know everything that everyone has said here so far is very correct. (We've got some pretty knowledgable folks here on the forum when it comes to VA matters!).
I can only think of maybe a couple of things to add, and I say them below, but I think the most important thing mentioned so far is what you yourself said:
"I've called my town's veterans agent (a retired 30 year E-9 Marine) asking to see him before my Thursday doctor appointment to ask about
changing my VA disability status."
Very good move. This person may just be your new best friend in what he knows and what he can do for you. Sort of like hiring a really good lawyer in a legal case. A good VSO knows the VA system as well as a good lawyer knows the legal system, and he will be able to do so much for you. Getting a good VSO to help you is probably the best single move you can make right now
So you probably don't need to find a VSO at this point, as it sounds like you may already have a good one lined up. But if you need to, there are sites that do help in locating them. This one looks good, and is probably typical:
nvf.org/veteran-service-officers/In the latter part of your OP, the plan you describe for proceeding with the DBQ and involving your physician also sounds like the best way for you to go at this point. It would be nice if the doc you have in mind has experience in completing a DBQ, but it's a simple enough form to do. And he can submit it to the VA for you, or complete it and give it back to you for you to send on to the VA yourself. (That's what I did in my case). You probably already have access to this, but here's information on the form on the VA site:
www.benefits.va.gov/compensation/dbq_disabilityexams.asp(Follow links there to get to the DBQ that is specifically for PCa).
In your OP you raise the issue of whether to have your uro or your oncologist complete the DBQ. It might be good to have the most qualified one in PCa matters (likely the oncologist) do it, since, although most of the questions on the DBQ form involve only "yes-no" type answers, there is one box on it for "Describe History," in which the completer is asked to go into detail. The more knowledgeable physician can likely answer it better.
Here's something else I found that is useful as a reference tool: the official government disability ratings code:
www.ecfr.gov/cgi-bin/text-idx?c=ecfr&rgn=div5&view=text&node=38:1.0.1.1.5&idno=38#38:1.0.1.1.5.2.105.56(Scroll down to "Genitourinary System" and follow links. Gives percentage values for determining the "worth" of various disabilities, and is used in calculating eventual degree of disability).
As I've said in other threads, I'm hardly an expert in VA matters, but I do make it a habit to keep reading veterans' sites on the web to learn what I can, and I regularly visit the VA site just see what's new.
One thing about
the VA site search engine, though. I'm afraid I have to say that I have always found it to be rather user-unfriendly, with even simple searches resulting in complex, often confusing results displays. (The VA needs to work on it). One tip I can pass on is to use the "site:" qualifier in this situation. That is, if you want to search the VA website (www.va.gov) for something, do it in Google with site qualifier, as:
agent orange site:va.gov
(which bypasses the VA on-site search engine, but still pulls up pages within the VA site).
There are a number of useful veteran-assistance sites out there which can prove useful. Here is one in particular:
vets.yuku.com/ that I have always found very helpful. I have been mainly a lurker there for some time, with an occasional post or two, and I vouch for them as a good, reliable source of information on veterans' matters.
Finally, some other useful tools:
For estimating compensation benefits:
www.benefits.va.gov/COMPENSATION/resources_comp01.aspand specifically for Agent Orange vets:
www.benefits.va.gov/compensation/claims-postservice-agent_orange.aspand an especially good general source on the VA site:
"Federal Benefits For Veterans, Dependents and Survivors."
www.va.gov/opa/publications/benefits_book.aspGoogling "VA state benefits" (no quotes) brings up a number of useful sites. This one is typical::
www.military.com/benefits/veteran-state-benefits/state-veterans-benefits-directory.htmlWhew, I guess that's enough for now. As I said earlier, you guys are really pretty sharp yourselves in gathering this kind of handy veterans' information, and I just hope I've been able to add maybe a little bit more.