Gemson-
Welcome to HealingWell.
I think your urinary retention is a much worse problem than your prostate cancer. You are at risk of a burst bladder or one that loses its elasticity. I hope the dutasteride shrinks your prostate. They often do a TURP in situations like these.
Your wife's anxiety is a very common issue - spouses and well-meaning friends often don't really know much about
prostate cancer. Their beliefs are informed from their experience with other cancers. I think that prostate cancer is the slowest growing of all cancers. I would encourage you and your wife to read the following article about
treatment regret, paying particular attention to the phenomenon called "role regret."
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/10/how-anticipating-regret-and-quick.htmlAllen said...
A new study by Hirasawa et al. confirms others that demonstrate that waiting 6 months or more (median 7.6 months) from biopsy to surgery among patients with localized prostate cancer (low risk to high risk) had no effect on 5 year rates of biochemical recurrence. It also had no effect on whether nerve bundles were spared, pathological upgrading or upstaging, positive margins, or positive lymph node detection. A similar study has demonstrated the same thing when the eventual treatment choice was radiation, comparing those who waited more than 3 months with those who had treatment within 3 months,. There is no medical reason to rush this primary treatment decision.
Here's the Hirasawa study:
/academic.oup.com/jjco/article-abstract/47/11/1083/4107913Your young age is an important reason why AS is such a good choice for you. These are prime years, and treatment now may take away urinary and sexual function that you would not ordinarily lose for another 30 years, if then.
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2016/08/can-man-be-too-young-for-active.html/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/08/the-myth-that-younger-men-should-not.htmlContrary to your wife's belief that you will eventually need treatment anyway, the longest running clinical trial of AS (in Canada) found that 55% of men on their AS program did not need treatment for progressive disease in 20 years of follow-up. The number was exactly the same at 15 years, indicating that those men will probably never require treatment.
BTW, the dutasteride you are taking will reduce your PSA by about
half, setting a new baseline for you. Dutasteride is very good at reducing PSA due to BPH, but not so good at reducing PSA from PC. This makes PSA a better indicator of PC progression - if it goes up while you are taking dutasteride, it is probably due to causes other than BPH. By shrinking your prostate, it will make your cancer easier to find in the future. Even so, about
half the men on AS who were taking dutasteride were unable to find any PC on a follow-up biopsy. We know it can help prevent low grade PC, and perhaps it also shrinks low grade PC that is already there.