Richp6 said...
Sometimes, there is very little urine but I had the urgency. Other times, I have a full bladder with not much urgency and relieve like a firehose I don't know the medical answer but I would give you some consolation that you are not alone.
I had a HoLEP procedure for BPH, and have the exact same kind of thing. OverActive Bladder (OAB). It’s not an inability to close down the valve so much as it’s some weird signaling to your bladder as to whether you actually need to go.
If I go from laying down to standing it hits within 5-10 seconds, independent of how much I need to go, then there’s a spasm-ish feeling at the end where the bladder thinks it still needs to put the squeeze on.
You can google on OAB and learn lots. Like hot flashes, it’s another thing the fairer sex has a lot more experience dealing with.