Hi Kate,
My husband was diagnosed almost two years ago (the day before his 57th birthday) with a PSA of 120, and Gleason 9. He has been on hormone therapy since then, and is feeling fine. His PSA is currently .3.
I have just joined this forum, and this is my first post. I just wanted to offer you some encouragement and support. Hang in there, and let us know how you are both doing.