Question bout Prostate Problems

Hello Im new here I am posting for my Husband who is currently at work. He has a Problem w/ keeping a Erection during sex and sometimes possibly even getting one. During Foreplay it can take upwards of 1-hr to get him remotely close to a erection when used to about a yr ago take 5 mins. From the transition to intercourse he looses his Erection and goes limp and have to start all over. When he finally gets another Erection and inserts it after bout 20 mins he looses it again and cannot Ejaculate it is very discouraging for him. I hate to see him go thru so much at a young age I am 22 and he is 26 we have 4 wonderful children and I dont want to see our Sex life go down cause of this. What is ur recommendation to do or idea We have no insurance and cannot see a doctor;;

I know it's easier said than done, but try not to worry overly about this aspect because if you put too much stress on yourselves it will only exasperate your situation.

Most men experience erection problems at some stage of their life and often it's a temporary thing with no obvious cause:

Don't have any expectations or put any more pressure on him to perform, tell him you feel happy to have a nice hug and try to feel more relaxed about your intimacy without necessarily worrying about ejaculation.

If it's a usual temporary situation, this approach could help, &/or you could also try viagra or similar (small amount at first) to help get things going again.

There are a number of other factors that can contribute to erection problems: stress (relationship, family, work etc),  and physical problems like weight gain, diabities, lifestyle, poor circulation, smoking, alcohol causing "brewers' droop".

Most stress and health issues can be assisted by lifestyle changes, diet, moderate exercise etc.

Especially if there's potential for any underlying physical problem, you will need to obtain medical advice.

Thanks for the responses. When this all started I told him Sex isnt everything and not to worry about if he doesnt keep his erection or ejaculate. I told him their is other ways of pleasure and more to our marriage we can focus on than just those things. I will look into the ED forums. I have been trying to talk to him about looking into other things for this to try to help but he just wont have it. I understand his discomfort w/ it cause it makes him feel he cannot please me. He isnt a Drinker or a smoker he hasnt gained no weight Our life is Mostly stress free and nothing in our lives has changed so i dont understand why all of a sudden it came up;;